These books include stories to help children cope
with loss of all kinds. There are a mix of nonfiction,
realistic fiction, fantasy and folk tale to help
children work through feelings and find ways of
coping with their grief. Listening to children
as well as reading with them will help to insure
you do not overwhelm them with too much information
or sadness.
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Story for Hippo: A Book about Loss by Simon Puttock, illustrated
by Alison Bartlett. Scholastic. Monkey is young and
rambunctious but his best friend is Hippo, the oldest and
the wisest of all animals. Hippo tells her young friend
stories every night and laughs at his jokes. One night she
gently explains that she is very tired and is going to die.
This story captures the loss of a friend and the slow process
of healing.
Annie
and the Old One by Miska Miles, illustrated by Peter Parnall.
Little, Brown. Afraid that her beloved grandmother will
die when the rugshe is working on is complete, a young Navajo
girl undoes the day’s weaving at night—until her grandmother
explains how death is a part of life.
Dog
Heaven by Cynthia Rylant. Blue Sky/Scholastic. Lots
of great art work illustrates this imaginative interpretation
of Dog Heaven where dogs run as far as they like, play with
angel children and sleep on clouds. Very comforting for
a child dealing with the loss of a pet.
Everett
Anderson’s Good-bye by Lucille Clifton, illustrated by Ann
Grifalconi. Holt. Everett’s father has died and how
he is going through the stages of grief, denial, anger,
bargaining, depression and acceptance. He begins to understand
his loss with the help of his mother.
Goodbye
Mousie by Robie H. Harris, illustrated by Jan Ormerod. Simon
and Schuster. When I woke up this morning, I tickled
Mousies tummy. But Mousie didn't wake up. At first the
little boy thinks his pet is just tired. With the help of
understanding parents, he comes to terms with the death
of his pet and finds comfort in preparing the funeral. A
sensitive and accurate portrait of a young child's feelings.
Grandad’s
Prayers of the Earth by Douglas Wood, illustrated by P.
J. Lynch. Candlewick. A grandfather uses a walk in the
woods to explain prayer to his grandson. Later, after the
grandfather’s death, the grandson’s solitary return to the
woods and to pray brings peace.
Mama
by Eleanor Schick. Cavendish. Wrapped in the arms of
Louise, the new caregiver, a young girl begins to come to
terms with the death of her mother as she recalls memories-both
happy and sad-of her mom.
My
Grandson Lew by Charlotte Zolotow, illustrated by William
Pene Du Bois. HarperCollins. Mother and son find comfort
in sharing memories about Lew’s grandfather. May facilitate
your family’s sharing of tender feelings and memories.
One
More Wednesday by Doray Malika. Greenwillow. In this
story a child bakes cookies with his grandmother every Wednesday.
When the grandmother passes away the child longs for one
more Wednesday. This is a story of love, loss and understanding
that will comfort a small child. It opens the way to talk
about life, death and eternity.
Rudi’s
Pond by Eve Bunting, illustrated by Ronald Himler. Clarion.
A story of friendship between a young boy and girl that
ends when the boy dies from a congenital heart condition.
When Rudi dies the narrator and other children in school
help build a pond to remember him by. A hummingbird feeder
hangs by the pond and one day a special hummingbird comes
to visit. Based on a true story.
Sweet,
Sweet Memory by Jacqueline Woodson, illustrated by Floyd
Cooper. Hyperion. The relatives are all gathered for grandpa's funeral-where, along with the food and the prayers, they will share their memories. But Sarah's memories are "stuck" in her throat and she is unable to tell her stories about grandpa-until an uncle helps her and she is able to share her "sweet memories".
The
Long Silk Strand by Laura E. Williams, illustrated by Grayce
Bochak. Boyds Mills. When her beloved grandmother dies,
Yasuyo follows the long silk thread to the sky. There she
learns how to let go of her grandmother by trusting the
power of memories made strong with the threads from stories
that will keep her grandmother’s spirit close. Tender, wise,
comforting.
The
New King by Doreen Rappaport, illustrated by E.B. Lewis.
Dial. When his father the kind is killed on a hunt,
it is the Wise Woman who teaches young Prince Rakoto about
death so he can take his place as the new king. A powerful,
yet comforting tale from Madagascar.
The
Old Dog by Charlotte Zolotow, illustrated by James Ransome.
HarperCollins. Finding hiss old dog has died, a boy
remembers all the good times they shared.
The
Tenth Good Thing about Barney by Judith Viorst, illustrated
by Erik Blevgad Simon and Schuster. A boy has to think
of ten good things about Barney, his cat who has died. A
touching story of a boy coming to terms with a beloved pet’s
death.
Through
the Mickle Woods by Valiska Gregory, illustrated by Barry
Moser. Little, Brown. Saddened by the death of his wife,
a grieving king follows her last request and travels through
the great wood to a bear’s cave, where he hears three stories
that possess a healing magic.
Too
Far Away to Touch by Leslea Newman, illustrated by Catherine
Stock. Clarion. Uncle Leonard helps Zoe face the prospect
of his death from AIDS when he tells her he will be like
the stars they saw in the planetarium—"too far away
to touch, but close enough to see". Poignant, eloquent
an comforting for anyone facing the death of a loved one.
When
Dinosaurs Die: A Guide to Understanding Death by Laurie
Krasny and Marc Brown. Little, Brown. A child’s definitive
guide to understanding death. This book explores the terminology
and feelings surrounding death. Cartoon figures of friendly
dinosaurs and the reassuring tone of book make this perfect
for sharing with young children.
Where
Do Balloons Go? An Uplifting Mystery by Jamie Lee Curtis,
illustrated by Laura Cornell. HarperCollins. A child
wonders what happens to a balloon when it is let go. Whimsical,
humorous and comforting.
Where
Is Grandpa? by T. A. Barron, illustrated by Chris K. Soentpiet.
Philomel. A young boy wants to know where grandpa is.
His dad explains in heaven…"any place where people
who love each other have shared some time together".
A comforting book about loss, with magnificent illustrations.
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